East Garston

Since coming to the Lambourn Valley parishes in September 2004 , The Revd Cumberlidge has brought about an extraordinary change in the church, most particularly here in East Garston, where it has become a place of celebration and happiness for many people rather than a few. The church is now a focal point in the village. Tony has developed the idea that there are many ways of serving the church and all manner of contributions are very much welcomed. The church is there for everyone.

Unfortunately Tony has struggled with health problems since April 2008 and although he has been able to return for brief periods between operations, a triple heart bypass operation in November meant that he reluctantly accepted that he must retire on ill health grounds. Tony and Gaynor now live in the Diocese of Southwell and Tony has been asked to consider returning to minister in his new parish, as a retired priest.

Perhaps the most significant aspect of Tony’s ministry has been the pastoral care that he has given to his flock. This is essentially private work and therefore not talked of and known, but since Tony was so amongst us in the village and in contact with the goings on in the parish, he has been able to bring comfort, hope, love, prayers and support, whenever he was needed.

East Garston churchwarden, Sally Wright, paid tribute to Tony saying that he had brought the church to the centre of the community and made it a place where people were happy to come. She assured him that he will be very much missed, which was echoed by all present, but that he had left behind an indelible mark, which will be always cherished and revered in the minds and memories of his flock.

Tony responded by thanking those who had come to say farewell to him that evening. Both he and his wife Gaynor were astonished at the size of the gathering. There were churchgoers, clergy, friends, members of The Young Families Group and The Air Crew Association to whom he was Chaplain, and especially pleasing to Tony, was the presence of the Lambourn Church Choir of whom he has very fond memories. Tony remembered with great enthusiasm the festivals, celebrations, baptisms and marriages that have taken place in his parishes.

Toasts were proposed to The Revd Tony Cumberlidge and then to Tony and Gaynor. Tony was presented with a cheque for £1,600 so that he could buy a gift by which he will always remember us.

Though an extremely personable gentleman, and informal when the occasion is right, Tony’s ministry is marked by grace and due reverence. He is indeed a man of contrasts: traditional as well as innovative; ensuring that all is done correctly, though appearing spontaneous and unrehearsed. Perhaps though, the quality that people will remember most, is Tony’s outstanding gentle kindness.

We all wish him great happiness and improved health in his retirement.